i just want to thank you. thank you for your love and time. with just two post weve reached almost one thousand page views. i say we because that number couldnt have been possible without your efforts. so thank you. i hope for many more to come. youre awesome, dont ever forget that or let someone tell you youre not. with that being said, i want to jump right into todays topic, relationships, something thats been on my mind here recently. im no expert on love or a counselor, but i truly believe you can be well educated on relationships just by being around them. this is something that ties in perfectly with interactions. the knowledge you can gain through interacting with people is truly amazing. it kills me to see people who are in relationships for their own assurance. they think that its just about them and their relationship and they can fix all their problems on their own. i believe this to be false. why? because you can learn so much about your significant other just by watching how they interact when they are around other people, not by how they are when theyre around just you. i believe that socializing should bring out the true you. this means you are seeking the approval of no one but yourself. you arent caring what other people think of yourself, youre just being you. and thats the best person you can be. i think it is very wise to find out who you are, your weaknesses, your strengths, your future, before you start looking for someone to build a relationship with. but how do i find myself? i honestly dont have the answer. im still working on that myself. like i said I'm no expert. im here for the ride just as much as you are. but one thing i do know is that interactions have significantly helped me, as well as this whole blog thing. putting your mind and heart out for the world to see will put a big chip into finding out who you really are. a poem called we wear the mask by laurence dunbar tells the story of people putting on a mask to fit into worldly standards, just to be accepted. this can found here www.poetryfoundation.org/poems-and-poets/poems/detail/44203 if youre struggling with finding yourself odds are youre probably not trying whole heartedly. because your true self comes from the heart and if youre trying with all your heart, it should lead the way. this is my reasoning behind finding yourself before letting someone else in. two reasons. one because if youre still looking for yourself and trying to find someone else, your heart will become cluttered and youll starting thinking with your head. love come from the heart not the mind. two because once youve found yourself and let someone else in, your heart is clear of your own conscience and is open for finding and loving your significant other. i have no clue if any of you will find this post useful, but its something thats been on my mind and have been wanting to share, so if any of you find this useful please drop a comment below and just share your heart and mind with this community. or if you have questions feel free to contact me. just click any of the social icons below. or share this post to anyone else who may find it useful. as always thank you for time. much love
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